Cooperation is natural in human history. Humans evolved to support cooperation, allowing groups to accomplish more than individuals. Cooperation led to the development of values such as altruism, morality, and honor.
To accomplish your goals, you need to rely on other people. You need to be humble and recognize that you lack both the objectivity and the complete skill set to achieve all of your goals. Instead, other people will 1) help you see your blind spots, and 2) provide complementary skills to cover for your weaknesses.
You will never be able to view yourself objectively most of the time. As we learned, often your ego will get in the way and bias you. In other cases, you might simply be blind to certain aspects of yourself.
You should get others to be radically truthful with you so you can see the truth about yourself. As founder and CEO of Bridgewater, Dalio had complete authority to do things his way, yet he willingly built himself a management committee to oversee him. He knew that relying on others was the best way to arrive at the truth.
To get the most out of other people’s viewpoints, practice thoughtful disagreement, as discussed in the previous chapter.
You will never be able to be proficient at all the things necessary to reach your goals. Be humble about this.
Nobody can be proficient at everything. Do you think Einstein was a great basketball player? Probably not. Despite his strengths, Einstein was incompetent at a lot of things. Do you think less of him for not being able to make free throws? If not, then you shouldn’t think poorly of yourself for having weaknesses.
Don’t be upset if you find you’re bad at something—be happy you found out, since this will improve your chances of meeting your goal. When you find a weakness, you can deal with it. This is a better situation to be in than to be blind to your weaknesses.
Once you find your weakness, figure out whether it’s something you should improve yourself or something you should get others to help you with. You can try to work at your weaknesses, but sometimes it’s just inconsistent with your nature. For example, some visionaries are bad at execution and details, and trying to get better can only take them so far. In cases like these, it’s probably better to ask others to fill the gap so you can focus on where you’re strong.
(If you do want to work on your weaknesses, Dalio recommends doing mental exercises, which are just like physical exercises for the mind. This includes reflecting on your painful mistakes and deliberately practicing the things that are currently uncomfortable for you, such as being more or less talkative or following through on your plans.)
A key part of working with others is figuring out how you all behave and think differently.
Through a combination of genetics and environment, people come to think in very different ways. People who think very differently have trouble understanding each other and often ignore the value of what they don’t have. Here are a few examples:
It’s hard enough to know what type of person everyone else is. Compounding this problem, people often don’t know which type of person they are themselves. This leads to all sorts of misunderstandings and conflicts.
To learn how other people think and behave, you need to adopt the right mindset. Be curious: you should want to understand how people who see things differently came to see them that way. Instead of getting frustrated with people and the choices they make, realize they aren’t intentionally acting in a counterproductive way—they’re simply making the best decisions they can based on how their brains work. If you had exactly the same brain and the same set of experiences as the other person, you would probably believe in the same things and behave the same way.
Next, understand the strengths and weaknesses of yourself and other people to get the best results out of everyone. People with complementary strengths do better work together than separately. For example, a visionary and an executor can accomplish more together than each can individually.
How do you actually figure out people’s personality types? Ray Dalio is a big fan of personality assessments. Here are the assessments he mentions in Principles:
Taking the results of a person’s personality assessment, you could then combine traits to form an archetype about the person. This might include the head-in-the-clouds Visionary, the impractical Artist, the tidy Perfectionist, the Wise Judge, the reliable Bedrock, and so on.
Ray Dalio takes archetypes a step further with his baseball cards tool, which describes at a glance how a person thinks and behaves. Each baseball card assigns attributes like “conceptual,” “creative,” and “determined.” It also assigns tendencies for behavior, like “holds others accountable” and “pushes through to results.”
Combined with the person’s archetype and personality assessment, the baseball card gives a clear narrative of how the person will behave, and how they fit into a team. For example, a person might have a Myers-Briggs type of S (for Sensing, meaning more concerned with concrete details) and a J (for Judging, meaning more structured and orderly). She might also have an “executor” archetype. It’s then clear what this person is best suited for—conscientious execution of detailed plans.
Once you understand yourself and other people to this level of detail, you can form a dream team of people with complementary strengths. (Shortform note: Dalio does not go so far as to describe the ideal composition of a team, or how different people of different types should work with each other. This level of detail might have been out of scope of this book.)
In the book, Dalio describes in detail one particular archetype that he believes he fits into: the “shaper.” The shaper comes up with unique and valuable visions and builds them out, despite the doubts of others.
Dalio realized his archetype when he was transitioning out of his CEO role, and he asked his lieutenants what his unique skill was. They answered it was “shaping.” He also believes other founder-entrepreneurs like Steve Jobs, Jeff Bezos, and Elon Musk fit this archetype.
Shapers have these qualities in common:
Dalio doesn’t have any value judgment on whether shapers are more important or valuable than other types. He just classifies himself as one and believes other founders of large companies tend to be them too.